Life can feel quite overwhelming at times. This past week felt like this for me. Perhaps you can identify.
In light of my week, I’m going to take a bit more of an autobiographical approach to this post.
My week was not overwhelming due to a massive crisis hitting my life, though there are plenty of crises hitting our world these days. In fact, most of the various items hitting the schedule were extremely enjoyable taken individually. The overwhelming feeling simply came as the normal flow of life built up and a few added curveballs were thrown into the mix.
I’m sure you have your own list of ordinary and normal flow of life items, but here are a few of mine from both the professional and personal levels:
- Preparing class lectures
- Meetings with students
- Teaching classes
- Grading papers
- Recording lectures for online students
- Participating in administrative meetings and attending to administrative needs for our school
- Spending time as a family
- Enjoying a date with my wife
- Attending a friend’s wedding
- Engaging with our community group at church
- Teaching a Sunday school class
- Spending time in the minivan with my daughter who is learning to drive
- Watching my daughter’s high school soccer game
- Helping coach my son’s football team with multiple games and practices
- Helping with the normal flow of house work
Navigating the Curveballs
I’m a bit tired just typing out this list of normal flow of life activities! I know you have your own list as well.
For me, this list shifted from normal flow to overwhelming when spending time working on two vehicles needing maintenance — one vehicle that was outsourced to a professional and one vehicle with work I did myself. Oh, and I lost my wallet as well!
You get the idea. We all have our normal flow of life activities, and then the occasional week comes along that throws us a curveball. My curveballs this week were vehicle repairs and a lost wallet. Your curveball likely was something else.
Working Hard from Passion rather than Stress
In the midst of this slightly crazy, and wonderful, week, I landed on a delightful quote from Simon Sinek:
“Working hard for something we don’t care about is called stress;
working hard for something we love is called passion.”
– Simon Sinek
With the exception of the vehicle maintenance and calling credit card companies to report lost cards, as I look back on this past week, a vast majority of everything with which I engaged thankfully fell into the passion category. Although I hope to avoid such a busy week as I move into another, I’m grateful that even when the work feels hard, it still feels meaningful.
May you find work in the week ahead that draws out passion rather than stress for you!
I’ll be aiming for this sweet spot as well.